Casual dating – uncomplicated time for two

Not everyone is looking for the great love and even if, so the time until you have found this, can be bridged with the so-called casual dating excellent. Uncomplicated dates, where everything is possible, but nothing is a must. In a world with dating apps, online portals & Co, dating without commitments has become easier than ever before.

It offers you the opportunity to meet many different people and, above all, to get to know yourself better. So casual dating is also a great way to just try out who or what you like. After all, you never have to see each other again if you don’t want to. But how do you prepare a date if it’s already concretely planned for a hot night, or at least you want to keep all your options open?

What does casual dating stand for?

• Everything possible, but not a must
• Trying out
• Open options

Tip 1: Communication

It doesn’t matter if you met your date online or in person, or if it’s a blind date: A little communication beforehand is important so that you know who or what is coming up. In addition, it is anything but unusual in dating apps & Co to talk in advance about the respective expectations of the date. Unfortunately, not everyone is honest about this, but many people are open about the fact that they are only interested in something firm or just something casual, for example. So if you’re unsure whether they’re both approaching the date with the same goals, it’s worth simply asking. As we all know, it doesn’t cost anything to ask!

How should you communicate?

• Before the date
• Talk about expectations
• Question about the goal of the date

Tip 2: Location

What follows now is the concrete planning, namely the question of when and where the meeting will take place. Depending on the type of date, the appointment can take place directly at home, so as not to waste time, so to speak – then mutual trust is the key. So especially women should not just go to a stranger’s home. It is therefore better to start the date in public and decide spontaneously how to proceed. If, on the other hand, you are looking for a permanent relationship and want to get to know your counterpart first, romantic places are a perfect choice: a chic restaurant, the botanical garden, a lake or river shore, a drive-in movie theater…there are no limits to your creativity in this regard.

Where is the location?

• At home when trust is there
• Public in case of uncertainty

Tip 3: Body care

Even if you don’t plan to be physically close, every date can turn out unexpectedly. It is therefore worthwhile in any case to devote yourself to personal hygiene in advance: shave, wash your hair, apply cream to your skin, paint your nails – prepare yourself so that you feel completely comfortable in case the date turns out to be hotter than expected. This way you won’t put unnecessary limits on yourself and you’ll radiate self-confidence, which in turn will make you look more attractive. A “beauty day” before the date is therefore a good idea in any case and can be designed according to your individual ideas.

How should you care for yourself?

• Feel good all around
• Prepare correctly
• Be clean

Tip 4: Outfit

There is still the question of the perfect outfit and this should also be right from the top to the bottom layer. What is to be seen, of course, should fit the type and location of the appointment. Your outfit can accordingly range from casual jeans to elegant evening wear and must reflect your personality. So wear what you feel comfortable in, is the most important principle in this regard. This also applies to your underwear: you should feel sexy in it if the date leads to a hot night. Women like to choose lace underwear for this purpose, even if its care is not entirely uncomplicated, because it simply gives them a uniquely seductive feeling. Men have less choice in this regard and usually go for classics like boxer shorts, which best show off their assets.

Which outfit should I choose?

• Matching the location
• Reflect personality
• Pay attention to underwear

Tip 5: Small talk

The biggest fear most people have on a date is embarrassing silence. It’s therefore worth thinking about possible topics of conversation in advance. Most dates start with classic small talk: about the weather, about hobbies, about the job – just as the topics arise. So, in case of a sudden silence, you can prepare some questions, because you shouldn’t start talking about yourself all the time. If, on the other hand, you want to make the date more impersonal or unusual, more creative topics of conversation are possible: for example, come up with scenarios like “what would you do if you won the lottery today?” or show humor with stories like the one about your most embarrassing experience. Again, there are no limits to your creativity. Ultimately, the date should be one thing above all, namely fun.

What should we talk about?

• Small talk about weather & co.
• Prepare questions
• Don’t just talk about yourself

Tip 6: Approach

If the chemistry is right, sooner or later there is usually an attempt at a physical approach. This can come from both the man and the woman. The motto is therefore courage. However, it is important to read the signs whether he or she wants this at all – and to accept a “no”. You yourself also need to set boundaries if something makes you uncomfortable. Thus, the date can end before the first kiss or in bed after all, depending on how both decide this by mutual consent. Even with sexual acts, it is allowed to try something, but of course only if he or she wants to. Again, communication is the be-all and end-all for a successful date.

How should one approach?

• Plenty of courage
• “Being able to accept “no
• Decide together

Tip 7: Honesty

This also applies to the last tip, namely that of honesty. This is even important in casual dating. This means honestly discussing your own expectations for the date or the time afterwards. It means being honest if something goes too fast or too far for you. And it also means honestly explaining any break in contact after the date. Because methods like so-called ghosting, which has unfortunately been rampant for several years (not only) in the dating world, cause unnecessary frustration and possibly even pain. Therefore, you should also be honest from the beginning when it comes to the question of what you are looking for, whether you would like to meet again, whether you can imagine more with him or her…and so on. At first glance, this may sound annoying, even exhausting. But at second glance it will save you a lot of drama if you play your cards right from the start. Nevertheless, you can’t expect your counterpart to do the same. Once again, it is therefore worthwhile to let a (casual) date come to you in a relaxed manner and simply wait and see where it leads.

Value honesty:

• Discuss expectations and future honestly
• Be honest to avoid ghosting

Conclusion: Self-discovery in dating

Finally, you can define for yourself what constitutes a hot date for you and how far you want to go. With the right preparation and the tips mentioned, you will then experience exactly the day, the evening or the night, which you have imagined in advance. At the same time, the date will only be really exciting if you let it come to you a bit and are open to the unexpected – of course, while maintaining your boundaries. Because even in casual dating there are unwritten rules: Discretion, no jealousy or violence, and the aforementioned honesty. Then all eventualities can occur from a one-time date to the very big love. Have fun!

Spreewald: nature, water fun and relaxation

You like to discover nature and action in the form of canoe tours and stand-up paddling are totally your thing? Then a holiday in the Spreewald is absolutely perfect for you, because in the Spreewald you can relax in nature, canoe through the Unesco Biosphere Reserve Spreewald and stroll through the castle park Lübbenau. There are also many other attractions like the Tropical Islands, a bathing paradise where you can spend a great day. If you want to know more about the Spreewald then read on here.

Spreewald Map: Location in Germany

Spreewald is located in the southeast of Brandenburg.

Spreewald from close up.

Three facts about the Spreewald

Here is already a small overview of the Spreewald.

• The Spreewald is known as the land of cucumbers
• More than 2.5 million tourists visit the Spreewald every year.
• The Spreewald is located 100 km southeast of Berlin

View over the Spreewald

In this video you can already get a small overview of the beautiful Spreewald!

360° panorama

Camping at the castle park

Checklist: Spreewald

These 5 places you must have seen!

Tip 1: Discover nature and relax

You long for relaxation from your stressful everyday life? Then discover a unique landscape and rare animal species in the Unesco Biosphere Reserve Spreewald. You can spend an eventful day here and completely immerse yourself in the animal and plant world.

Tip 2: Canoe tours and stand-up paddling for action enthusiasts

Are you in the mood for action during your holiday in the Spreewald? Then a canoe tour through the Spreewald is the perfect attraction for you. You can rent your boat on site at the canoe rental and choose one of the many exciting canoe tours. Perfect for family camping holidays with a converted van, camper or roof tent, the boat rental also offers life jackets especially for children. For the super sporty, stand-up paddling is also offered. Curious? Here you will find camping tips for the Spreewald.

Tip3: For those interested in history a hike to the Bismarck Tower

Atop the Bismarck Tower you have a beautiful view of the entire Spreewald, so a hike to the Bismarck Tower is an absolute must if you’re vacationing in the Spreewald.

Tip 4: Enjoy culture in the Lübbenau castle park

In the oldest part of the city of Lübbenau, the Schlosspark Lübbenau, you can spend a relaxing day. Take a nice walk through the castle garden and get an ice cream or a waffle at one of the many delicious ice cream parlors and waffle stands nearby or enjoy the sun’s rays with a picnic. If you’re particularly interested in history, a tour of the historic castle is an absolute recommendation for you.

Way description to the best cafes and waffle stands

To make your walk in the castle park perfect, you should treat yourself to a delicious waffle or a coffee and cake in a café, here we have picked out the best cafés and waffle stands in the area for you:

• Waffle stand at the castle district
• Farm Shop Café

Tip 5: Fun for the whole family at Tropical Islands

If you want to spend a great, action-packed day with your family, then Tropical Islands is just right for you: A tropical world of adventure with various water worlds awaits you here. If you like it more relaxed, the whirlpool or the enchanted lagoon with grotto is definitely something for you. The 28 degree warm South Sea with its 200 m long sandy beach is also an absolute highlight. If you like action, you will have a lot of fun on the 27 m high water slide tower. Tropical Islands is also perfect for a relaxing weekend for two: the sauna area and spa are ideal for a romantic and relaxing weekend.

Similar regions: Holidays in Dresden Old Town, Open-Air Cinema & Great Garden

Your perfect holiday is a mix between relaxing, discovering the city and enjoying culture? Then Dresden is the right place for you: you can easily stroll through the beautiful old town and pass by important sights and delicious restaurants like the Frauenkirche and the Augustiner Restaurant at the Frauenkirche. Dresden also offers a lot culturally, the city is known for its great museums and exhibitions, especially the chocolate museum is an absolute recommendation.

• Vacation in Dresden

Alfsee: Action, adventure and relaxation

Play, fun and action-that’s Alfsee. You love to swim in the lake, to do water sports and to be in nature? Then Alfsee is the right place for you! The leisure centre on the eastern shore of the lake offers you everything you need to relax and have fun. Whether you prefer a holiday home, hotel or camping, the Alfsee offers you all possibilities. With its wide range of leisure activities, games and sports, the Alfsee is the perfect holiday destination for the whole family! But also alone or with your partner there is a lot to do. You will definitely not get bored here!

Lake Alfsee on the map: location in Germany

The Alfsee is located in the northwest of Lower Saxony.

Surroundings: Location in Lower Saxony

The Alfsee from the proximity.

Three facts about the Alfsee

Here is a short overview of the Alfsee

• The Alfsee is a large reservoir with many leisure facilities and an adventure park.
• The lake actually serves as a flood retention basin for the surrounding villages
• The Alfsee is a nature reserve

The Alfsee from above: Drone & 360° view

Get a bird’s eye view of the recreation center, the lake and the amusement park!

360° panorama

A beautiful view over the lake with anticipation of swimming, karting and nature!

Checklist: Alfsee Leisure and Recreation Centre

Take a look at a typical day at Alfsee here, which will immediately whet your appetite and also give you tips and offers for perfect relaxation!

Morning: Waking up at the lake

Already in the morning it starts adventurously. The first rays of sunlight shine through the window, you look around the room and feel like you’ve been transported back to another world. You wake up in one of the “Germanic houses” built in 2018, which captures the history of the Germanic tribes. Play and experience is the name of the game here, especially kids will love it! History and a rustic look not your thing? Are you travelling with your partner or without children and do you like comfort? No problem, because the resort also offers you the possibility to stay in beautiful hotels, holiday apartments/ houses or directly at the beach in a stylish bungalow. If you prefer to stay in your own four walls, you can of course also come with your camper, roof tent or converted van. You can find more tips on camping at Alfsee here!

Here you will find the location of the Germanenland, directly on the shore of the Alfsee!

Here is a glimpse of the beautiful overnight accommodation “Germanic houses”, which look wonderfully idyllic at sunrise. Here you are guaranteed to find relaxation!

In the morning: go-karting and maze

After breakfast you are ready for action and want a good dose of adrenaline? At the end of the area, right next to the parking spaces is the 600m long kart track. Go karting at a lake? No problem, because at the Alfsee that is also possible. As an alternative program for the next days, a visit to Germany’s largest round maze is a good idea. Will you find the right way? You can take a look at the maze in our introductory video at the top of the page.

Midday: Beach, swimming and surfing

The midday invites to water fun of all kinds. Whether sportsmen or relaxers, everyone gets their money’s worth here. You always wanted to try water skiing or wakeboarding? You can do that here at the Alfsee, too. With the help of modern cable cars you can glide over the water in the sun. The local surf school invites you to surf, kite surf and sail.

A white sandy beach is the highlight for the children, who can build super sand castles here after swimming and bathing. The adults can relax at the beach bar. Those who are still not exhausted after the water sports can really step on the gas in the aqua park.

Here is an insight into the wide range of water sports on offer at Alfsee.

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Afternoon: bike ride and mini golf

The Alfsee is a true paradise for cycling enthusiasts. With children, e-bikes and co. here you can choose different routes, from easy to difficult. You can make a stop at the Alfsee mini golf course, where you can cool off with fresh drinks after a successful game. If the bike tour continues, you can explore the village of Rieste and the Osnabrücker Land. Our tip: E-bikes can be rented at the Alfsee reception. So you don’t have to worry about a bike rack for the car and you can go on holiday relaxed.

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In the evening: Relaxing in the sauna

After a long day full of action and power, you can relax in the evening in the large sauna area at Alfsee. In addition to the tranquility of massages, wellness and cosmetic treatments, you can nap on a lounger in the sauna garden. If you still have energy, you can get your body in shape in the fitness studio. Afterwards you can do something good for your health in the salt cave and relax in the hot water bath.

Gain an insight into the wonderful sauna area at Alfsee here!

After a successful day at the Alfsee, you fall into your soft bed and look forward to the next day with even more adventures and action!

Similar region: The Hopfensee

A holiday at the Hopfensee promises a real adventure, because a trip to the dreamlike lake involves a little round trip around the surrounding towns. While the first day at the lake is spent hiking, swimming, surfing and then sampling the home cooking from the best fishing lodge in Germany, the second day only offers more fun. Neuschwanstein Castle in Schwangau, the Lech Falls in Füssen or a relaxing day at the campsite directly on Lake Hopfen. There is probably not enough time on a short holiday to discover everything.

• Holiday at the Hopfensee

Bavaria: Action, Sightseeing & Co.

You want to spend your next holiday in Bavaria? Then you’ve come to the right place. Whether you’re with your partner, family or touring alone, here you’ll find an overview of Germany’s largest state, as well as our top 5 sights and activities throughout Bavaria. With our additional route you are perfectly prepared for your Bavarian holiday. Even for campers with a roof tent or converted van, Bavaria with its many lakes is a great region to spend a holiday. Pack your bag and let’s go!

Bavaria on the map: location in Germany

Bavaria is located in the south-east of Germany.

An even better insight

Bavaria up close.

Three facts about Bavaria

Here you find facts briefly in the overview

• One of the most famous folk festivals – the Oktoberfest has been held annually since 1810.
• Bavaria is Germany’s largest federal state.
• The highest mountain in Germany, the Zugspitze is located on the edge of Bavaria.

Cities in Bavaria: 360° view and drone

Here you get a wonderful insight about Bavaria and its historical cities.

360° view over the bavarian mountains

This beautiful panorama gives you a taste of the adventurous mountain landscape of Bavaria.

Checklist: 5 places of interest

These 5 places you must have seen!

Tip 1: Schwangau for dreamy people

For a fairytale experience in Bavaria, Schwangau is the place to be. Here you will not only find the castles of Neuschwanstein and Hohenschwangau, but the historic town of Füssen is also well worth a visit. Below the royal castles is also the picturesque Alpsee, to which a trip is always worthwhile.

Tip 2: Marienplatz in Munich

The heart of the capital of Bavaria is the Marienplatz. Here is not only the Old and New Town Hall, but also forms the center of the shopping mile of Munich. In addition, centrally located sights such as the Viktualienmarkt or the Frauenkirche are easily accessible from here.

Tip 3: Zugspitze for hikers

The Zugspitze is the highest mountain in Germany and borders directly on Austria. Thanks to its three mountain railways, the Zuspitze is accessible to everyone. If you prefer hiking, you can choose one of the six tours leading to the summit. Even if it is strenuous, the way is worth it! Besides the breathtaking view, the summit plateau also has good food to offer. For children there is also the possibility to go sledding.

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Tip 4: Nuremberg for historians

If you want to be transported back to the Middle Ages, Nuremberg is the place to be. The beautiful old town has a lot of medieval buildings and invites you to stroll. It is especially beautiful here at Christmas time, when the famous Christmas market opens its doors every year.

Tip 5: Chiemsee for adventurers

It is not for nothing that Lake Chiemsee is called the “Bavarian Sea”. Sailing, surfing and swimming – here you can let off steam. But also boat rentals and tours are offered here. For those who are not water rats, there is the 60 km long bicycle path that leads once around the entire lake. A real stronghold of leisure activities! Your thing is more nature and camping, you finally want to get out into the countryside again with your converted van with roof tent or your own camper? Here is an article about camping in Bavaria!

Bavaria Tour: The Top 5 on the map

Once across Bavaria from Schwangau to Nuremberg. With this route, you’re guaranteed to take in our top 5 best sights in Bavaria!

• Route duration: 6 h 41 min
• About: B179
• Length: 449 km

Similar region: Holidays in Koblenz

Want more tips for another place in Germany? Then take a look at Koblenz.

Koblenz is just under 432 kilometres from Bavaria.

The perfect place for a short holiday with family, friends or partner. The multifaceted city is one of the oldest cities in Germany and therefore has numerous castles, palaces and churches to offer. In addition, the old town invites you to shop and linger. With our ideal tips, there’s nothing standing in the way of your trip to Koblenz. Discover our top 5 attractions.

• Holiday in Koblenz

Buy a dog?! Prerequisites first

Let’s start from the very beginning! First of all, it is always important to think about whether a dog really fits into your life. At the end of the day, a dog is, quite simply compared, like a small child. Little children want to be kept busy all the time! They want to eat, they want to play, they want you to pay attention to them.

Your first dog & puppy: Do you have time?

So if you are going through a stressful period in life, working a lot and maybe even single, you may not have enough time, after all, your dog will easily live to be 12 years old, maybe even 15 years or 16 years old, depending on the dog breed and conditions. Accordingly, you have long responsibility for the little creature. Or, can you create the time? Why? You need to go out several times a day so that your dog learns to do his “business” outside. While we’re on the subject, in the first six to twelve months, your puppy will do a lot in your home. Simply because he or she doesn’t know how to do it yet. But, your puppy will learn, with enough patience, on your part!

If you can create enough space in your life and take the necessary responsibility, your dog will be a loyal soul with whom you will have a lot of fun!

So that you can prepare yourself optimally for your dog, the tasks and living together, you can find our free guide for dog owners here! This includes top lists, for example for good dog groomer recommendations, as well as checklists, for example for your puppy basic equipment. Continue with our little guide: What happens in the first weeks?

Buying a dog: Puppy moves in!

Buying puppies – What accessories do you need for your puppy around leash, bowl, sleeping place and food? Every year millions of little puppies are born and find a new home!

Walking the dog, staying alone & Co.

We also have one or two little puppies now: Neppa & Peppa. You are thinking about buying a dog? If you have time to spare and love, then a little puppy is something wonderful. But, what do you have to consider?! Learn here about the daily life with a little puppy: My first day with Peppa (Dwarf Spitz, or Pomeranian puppy), my first week and my experiences. If you’re thinking of getting a dog, here are the ultimate tips for the first week with your puppy and a few insider tips, like puppy pads, tips for walking and staying alone – all in the first week!

• Buy a dog – puppy moves in!

Tester: Peppa! Our editorial dog

By the way, this is Peppa(Pomeranian), our editorial dog and our official tester. Her main job is to eat and play. That’s why she is perfect for the job of the official FIV tester!

Basic equipment puppy: 6 Must Haves

Buying Puppies: Basic Supplies for Your Dog – No matter what breed of dog or type of mixed breed, there are exactly 6 things you need when buying your first dog or puppy! So to speak, the basic equipment for your puppy and the first days together in the house or apartment.

Food, bowl, leash, collar, blanket, … – Checklist

With this checklist, you have all the essentials! The right food for puppies, two bowls for food and water, a leash with collar and / or harness (safer), toys and very important, especially if you do not have a garden or live on the first floor: Puppy Pads! Learn all the essentials here, with tips for times to eat and other interesting checklists for beginners and novices. Simply explained and free! Here’s the nuts and bolts for the first trip, from breeder to home, and the first few days with your puppy, from my experience.

• Dogs basic equipment

Dog food: wet food, dry food, treats

Dog Food – What is the best dog food on the market? What is the best dry / wet dog food? Which snack is the tastiest? I’m on the hunt for tasty snacks for my puppy pretty much every weekend. Since I’ve basically bought out my favorite dog specialty store a few blocks away, I’ve been on the hunt online. Here I am collecting new, interesting brands and snack ideas for you. My puppy is currently 5 months old, so you’ll be discovering more here as time goes on!

• Dog food

Organic dog food?! Small test

Everyone loves organic, but does my dog? Food for your dog has effects on the coat, but also on digestion, well-being and energy, whether puppy or older dog. Organic is an important topic for many, it’s about farming methods and animal welfare. But it is also about taste and a better feeling when buying. That’s why I also like to buy organic products at a fair price. Now the question: Are there also good organic alternatives for dog food and snacks? With this question I came to Yarrah. Yarrah is the largest supplier of organic dog food. Summer is starting and by now my dog has had enough of the supplies from the supermarket and pet supply store. So I need some new treats and snacks for my dog, in my pantry. This week I ordered from Yarrah for the first time, and everything arrived today. What can organic from Yarrah do? Our little taste test!

• Organic dog food?! Small test

Dog groomer: tips from a professional

The way to the dog groomer of your confidence, belongs to the absolute basics for dog owners. Especially for puppies that still have a top coat.

Dog groomer: first dog, puppy, procedure and training

Dog groomer – The first dog, the first encounter every new dog owner of longhair or shorthair dogs asks himself the same question. When do I go to the groomer? Do I need one at all? We asked our dog expert and asked these questions. Here you will find out everything from getting used to a blow dry, training to a trial day. So that you can distinguish between wire hair, rough hair and smooth hair with your puppy so that your dog gets the perfect care to the fur.

• Dog grooming: procedure and training

Dog groomer near you: Tips and no-go’s!

Dog groomers near you – The cooperation between the dog, the owner and the groomer is the be-all and end-all if you want well-groomed fur for your dog. However, many don’t even know how to find the perfect groomer for themselves and their puppy. The choice is not big, but there are huge differences between the dog salons. However, since cooperation and trust is the most important thing when choosing a groomer, we asked our dog groomer for her top tricks, no-go’s and experiences.

• Dog groomer near you: Tips

Dog Fur & Dog Breeds: Differences

Labrador, Chihuahua, Miniature Spitz or German Shepherd – here you will find the most important facts about undercoat, coat and care from our dog groomer. We have grabbed the most popular dog breeds and have taken a short statement from our expert for you. Learn even more about dogs and your dog!

• Dog Coat & Breeds

Interview with our FIV expert

Dog hairdressers in Cologne – We have met one of the best dog hairdressers from Cologne and a small interview with the owner and expert of the salon Fellgeflüster. She tells us how she came up with the idea to open a dog salon in Cologne. With YouTube videos she started to build up her small business and to teach herself everything about undercoat to the perfect cut. At the age of 30 she founded her own salon Fellgeflüster. Now she has built up her regular customers in her own shop has her own insider tip and has a selection from pink harnesses to cute duck leashes.

• Dog groomer interview

Pomeranian / Dwarf Spitz: Q&A

You want to buy your first puppy? Maybe even a small Pomeranian for you or your family? Then you surely have many questions! Here you will find the answers, among others to questions like “how much does a Pomeranian cost?”, “what do you have to look out for in a Dwarf Pomeranian?”, “how much does a Pomeranian shed?” and “how do you groom a Pomeranian?”. – First of all, Pomeranians are really cute as sugar. Grown up they are only 25-30 inches tall and as a puppy, barely a handful of dog. Walking, peeing, Pomeranian care, our little guide to your first puppies!

• Pomeranian / Miniature Spitz